Have you ever wondered how much time it takes to spend dating with someone to take it to the next level and to start a Relationship? Is it sometimes necessary to ask yourself whether the person with whom you are dating is the right person to get into relationship?  I decided to find out.

So When dating becomes a relationship? Dating is the first step of Relationship. Every relationship is different and moves on its own timeline, but when your Dating start to become more serious you can say that you are in the Relationship. By serious it means you openly talk about your fears, future, sadness, happiness and common life.

The first thing you gonna focus on is developing a real connection with that person. Connecting with someone is something that can be kind of confusing to understand sometimes. When you find someone you like, don’t spend all your time and let that person living in your head thinking if they like you to. Walk to them, talk to them and show up your charming and confident personality. They will also have the filing that they are relaxed with you and then they will open with you also. Connecting with someone is not only word showing. You are showing them in person that you like them  by what you do and not what you say. Find someone who has a happy and healthy relationship and follow their example. Article about HOW LONG SHOULD YOU DATE BEFORE MOVING IN TOGETHER? is also important with this topic.

Learn What They Want From the Relationship

There is also one more thing you need to know before you get in the relationship and it’s very important. That is to learn what they want from the relationship. Are you kind of person that wanna say „I love you“ every single day, walk each other to the class or even write notes. Talk what you want from each other before you make it official. Because last thing you wanna do is get into relationship and realise this person does not work for you, and awkwardly break up with each other. And if things do not work out with you 2 that’s ok. Don’t force to go out with him/her if you feel lonely or like you never had no one.

Once you are well connected it is important to start getting involved in each other lives. Yes, I know you wanna spend every waking moment of every single day with them, but it is important to spend a time outside of just you and him/her and get to know other people, events and things in life. Last thing you wanna do is to start a relationship with someone who hate your friends, find them boring, things what you do is not cool, and just does not have good time around your world. If you are also running into problems before you even become boyfriend and girlfriend then maybe it is a sign it is not meant to be. But assuming all goes well you guys are really connecting, enjoying each other friends and family life and you really see the spark is growing.  You’re on the right path.

How Well Do You Really Know Them?

The biggest mistakes where people can find themselves in the relationship is that after month, two or three, they realize that they have no idea who they actually were. Experience is sometimes the best school, but it can be a very expensive scholarship. The goal is to be exclusive with the right person. The best way to truly learn about another person is to take the time needed to truly get to know them before making a commitment to them. Do not make it uncomfortable to talk about some things, you have to be open to everything. Your partner can also be your best friend. So feel relaxed by that person, because if you can’t relax, ask yourself is this the right person with whom you want to start a serious relationship? 

How to Find out If the Person You are Dating is the Person you Want to Marry?

There is a strange phenomenon in today’s culture where older people, more experienced and wiser, are viewed as “outdated” and “old-fashioned”. The same goes for tips about walking and dating. Stop thinking for a bit and think about from who would you prefer to receive advice about marriage? From a person who has been divorced five times or by a person who is married over 50 years? Here are 3 tips you need to know above all.

1)Each relationship ends in one of these 2 ways. Every relationship ends with either marriage or with breakup. If you know that the person you are dating with is not the person you want to marry – it’s time to break this relationship. The end is inevitable and his postponement (for whatever reason) creates a negative atmosphere in relationship. Keeping this in mind, you will raise your standards related to a person with you probably want to be, and then your relationship will get the meaning.

2)It’s okay not to have a girlfriend. Seriously! It’s okay to be alone! Love will find us at the right time. When you are looking for a future boyfriend or a girlfriend, and knowing what you read before in the text, you will know the moment when you need to react.

3)Restraint is a necessity for Love. When a person has not learned to master his sexual instinct – and his urge to master it – his or her desires become selfish. Selfishness and love are two things that never go together. The temperance is the call to serve another person. Sexuality also gains its fullness only in marriage, because in marriage we surrender ourselves and our whole life to another person.

Which Features I Need to Have for Quality Relationship?

You Have to Know to Take Care of Yourself. In happy relationships  both sides know how to take care of themselves and each other. Caring for yourself is a prerequisite for a quality relationship. If you have financial and similar problems, resolve them before entering a serious relationship. Reliance on your partner in financial and similar crises is not the healthiest way of thinking. Both partners should be financially independent before starting a relationship.

Finish Every Contact With Your Ex. Before you begin any new relationship, finish all contacts with your former partners. If you still have something with your ex-partner then you should not go out and try dating with others or give them false promises. Relation 
problems with your ex-partner could only cause problems in the new relationship. First of all, be sure to finish it before entering any new relationship. If you want to open a new door in your life, it is necessary to close the old doors to the end. Keep that in mind.

Define Your Criteria. It is certainly better to be single than with someone who does not fit you. Do not be afraid of loneliness. In any case, it is better to be alone than in a bad relationship. Ask yourself what kind of partner you want and what criteria he should fulfill. Be aware of your qualities, and do not let in your life a partner who would not meet those criteria.

Learn How to Deal With Conflicts. Above all, conflicts are part of every relationship and sometimes it is impossible to avoid them. But we should not allow conflicts to become our everyday lives. First of all, we should know how to deal with them and adequately solve them. Sometimes you have to relax and sometimes you need to find a compromise.

Related Questions:

5 interesting things about dating
• Most people also wait 5 months to say „I love you“ for the first time
• It takes another 6 months to update their relationship status on Facebook 
• Did you know it takes longer to hold hands with a new partner that it does to kiss them  
• Research says that almost 34% people wait a week or two before holding hands, and 31% saying they’d kiss their date immediately on first date if things were going well. 
• When it comes to having sex, almost 27% of people wait between 1 or 2 weeks to sleep with their partner for the first time, while 24% of them are waiting a month.

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